how long would you wait for the one you love

Love in Time of Cholera

What I understand from this movie are:

• The man fell in love with the woman who loves him in return
• They can't get married because her father want the best for her child and asked her to marry a doctor instead.
• She marries the doctor.
• He is brokenhearted. He tries to forget her and he slept with more than 300 women.
• His love for her is eternal. Though he loves her very much, he NEVER disturb her marriage. 
• If you love her, let her go. If she comes back she's yours. If she doesn't, you are never meant to be.
• One day, her husband passed away. He approaches her again after many years. They are both now very old. VERY old.
• They ignite their love sparks that long gone.

So, how long would you wait for the one you love?

nota mintak kaki: 

I ada kenal sorang ni, dia ada boyfriend dah, tapi dia still mesej ex-boyfriend dia cakap rindu semua. Awak, kalau betul awak rindu, awak masih sayang kan dia, baik awak biarkan dia bahagia dengan girlfriend baru dia tu. Saat bahagia awak dengan dia dah berakhir. Sekarang, please embrace and create good memories with your CURRENT boyfriend. Kalau awak nak melayan perasaan awak je dan ignore perasaan semua orang, please respect your CURRENT boyfriend's feeling.

nota mintak tangan:

kau memang dokter cinta pun aena~ pui!

Of Science, Mathematics, Physics and Congratulation

Hello. Assalamualaikum.

Saya sedang menghabiskan masa-masa terakhir mid-semester break as an International Business students' dengan tidur, keluar dengan Elly, Eddy and Nana, berdating dengan Incik BF dan membantu Puan Mummy semak kertas final exam. Ya, menyemak kertas exam. Kertas exam Fizik dan Sains. Heyyy, gua budak pure science kot duluu..

Saya tak tahu sekarang ni, Sains dan Matematik diajar dalam Bahasa Melayu ataupun Bahasa Inggeris. Tapi, soalan yang diberikan dalam both languages lah. Yang geram ni, adik-adik yang Form 4 ni - baya adik saya Faris. Seingat saya, awak semua belajar Sains dan Matematik or shall I say Science and Mathematics in English since Standard 1! Since standard 1 kids. 

So, kakak was very disappointed to see, adik answering in Malay. I mean, you learn in English, the questions is in English, when you answer in Malay, the term might be different.

For example dear adik, the picture on the left. In Malay, we call this pattern on the tire as 'bunga'. We don't call it 'flowers' in English. 

Adik, English is important. Bila kat sekolah ni yang nak belajar English kaw-kaw punya. You know adik, jangan takut nak mencuba. Awak bantai je guna English. Bahasa pasar pun takpe. Asal awak mencuba.

Lagi adik-adik dan kakak-kakak serta abang-abang sekalian. This is common mistakes. I'm no grammar nazi but it hurts my eyes so much to see you congratulate people using CONGRATES. 

Dude, the spelling is CONGRATULATION. no existence of E. Therefore, it shall be CONGRATS.

Sama-sama kita belajar ye.

p/s: Cik Put, kite merajuk dengan kamu.

Suara Wanita

Assalamualaikum wbt.

Sebagai seorang pelajar, presentation adalah suatu yang sangat sinonim. Minggu ni saja, 3 hari kami sekelas kena present. 3 hari berturut-turut tahu. Yang seronok time present ni, boleh borak, tidur, main dan tak payah belajar. Yang tak seronok pulak, bila kita present and bila presenter present kepada hidung beliau. Ni biasanya perempuan.

Faham tak metafora tu? Ecececeee.. Metafora, pui!

Dalam arti kata lain, presenter tu menggunakkan suara halus dan lembut semasa present. Ala-ala berbisik gittew?

So, saya sebagai pendengar yang selalu duduk belakang, macam geram la. Tolong kuat suara sikit boleh? Tak confident lettew..

Bagi mereka yang membidas, 'Suara wanita tu aurat tahu! Ana mana boleh kuatkan suara Ana.' 

Ana (nama dia Rozana, pendek Ana, bukan Ana = saya bahasa Arab tu); suara wanita bukan aurat! 

"Maka janganlah kamu wahai wanita, merendahkan (melembutkan) suaramu maka dibimbangi orang yang berpenyakit di hatinya beringinan jahat kepadamu, maka bercakaplah hanya dengan kata-kata yang baik (kandungan dan tatacaranya)"

(Al Ahzab: 32)

Saya bukan orang yang bijak pandai mengulas hadis ni. Tapi, di sini jelas, suara wanita bila berbual, dalam keadaan biasa, bukanlah aurat! Tapiii, bila merendahkan / melembutkan suara yang jadi aurat. 

Hah, so, gadis-gadis yang bersuara lembut time present tu, baik awak kuatkan suara, dikhuatiri menjadi aurat pula.

Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal. 

p/s: kepada pembaca pelajar wanita, tolong kuatkan suara okek. Show your confidence!

Aena and sukan?

Akhir-akhir ini, aku selalu juga turun padang kat sport com tu, main frisbee. (untunglah housemate budak sport rec) dia orang ajak main. Seminggu lebih juga lah belajar nak baling piring tu. Geram je cikgu-cikgu aku (read: Wani, Amar, Mun, Acap, Hana). Taknak nak banyak pulak cikgu kau kan?

Main frisbee ni, roughly macam netball, dah dapat disc tak boleh gerak and kena throw dalam masa 10 saat. Kalau nak psycho, orang yang jaga kita tu akan jerit depan muka kita kira 1 sampai 10.

Motif sebenar, nak cerita kenangan lama, waktu muda-muda diploma dulu. Time hari sukan DBS je, muka ni la yang melepet masuk netball. Tak terror pun, suka-suka. 1 sem, 1 kali main.

Ada satu sem ni, kakak senior, jalankan indoor netball. Memang sangat bersyukur sebab tak kena panas matahari. Court netball ni, ada la macam besar court badminton. Line dia je lain, rasanya lah. Kakak senior organizer, bijak pandai tamak, book la semua badminton court - fine. Yang tak fine nya bila, 1 game netball, guna 3 court badminton. Gila?! Bayang pancit tak pancit. 

Aku pulak, tak reti main bahagian main, main center je. Senang, tak boleh masuk zone D. So, zone D opponent, kat court badminton 1, kena defense team, sampai zone D home, court badminton 3. Marah betul memikirkannya. So, end up, team aku, settle for no 3. Sebab, semua sangat tak larat nak main. 

Thanks For the Add!

When people add you as friend in Facebook, and you kindly accept their request, some of them might post to your wall saying:

• Thanks!
• Thanks for adding.
• Keep in touch y'all!
• Terima kasih meng-add

I do this sometimes. Most of the time I'll indirectly say thanks or just start a conversation.

• Hey you! Nice profile picture! Thanks anyway..
• Hey, I know you from somewhere, you're that handsome guy in McDonald's rite? Thanks

Motive, when I do these, and these things come out in your News Feed, people concentrate on the dialouge not the THANK YOU part. Not that I'm arrogant. My personal opinion for those who only says thanks to people who just add them as friend:

• If the person you added is someone people know (read: popular/famous), you would like your other friends to know he/she just accepted you as their friend virtually.
• You lack of any other interesting vocab to express your gratitude of them accepting your friend request?
• You just want to start conversation, and you're too nervous to say anything else and you end up saying just 'Thanks' only.

I do have issues with this actually. I don't know why it irritates me so much! Urgh! Since I sometimes do this, double Urgh Urgh!

This makes me think about MySpace all over again, come on humans! We're grown ups! Kill the ordinary or glittered thanks. Start conversation. Real one! Happy Tuesday humans!

Crazy educator!

An average degree student of UiTM gets 14 weeks of lecture. 1 week of mid-semester break. 1 week to study. 2 weeks of finals exam.

A pioneer in International Business students in Arau, gets all of the above too.

Except that, we wasted 8 weeks to study about nothing that comes out in the final exam! We spent RM85 for the book that have nothing to do with our final exams.

I know we should not just study for a degree scroll. We should gain knowledge too. We shouldn’t be whining (I shouldn’t be whining). So, stop whining and start studying those 10 chapters in 4 weeks when we should’ve done that in 14 weeks. 

I’m sorry. It’s a test. I know. But I can’t help to whine. 

The subject is called Regional Economic Geography. What we’ve learnt so far focuses on Economic. I’m ok with this actually, I see the word Economy there; until I browse through the final paper and I’m like, ‘Demmit! These whole papers focus on Geography!’ well, that was on Week 9.

Argh!! He said he’s a doctor! Why does he do this to us?!

*bawa mengucap Ainaa..

Currently, I'm easily annoyed. Kill the lawak bodoh yea. Thanks.

That includes you Mr Broadband! Grrrr!!